Kyle
C. Becker
Your
Power to Change
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Tell
your readers a little about yourself, where you grew up, where you live now,
where you went to school etc. Let them get to know the personal you.
I was born in
Alaska but my family moved back to Washington when I was 2. I have lived here ever since. I lived in the
Kent, WA area for 30 of those years. (I am 44 as I type this) I don’t have much
of a formal education as I got into some trouble when I was younger. I chose to
learn some life lessons the hard way. I have never stopped learning though.
Ever since I was 21 I have been reading some sort of self help book and
applying those principles to my life. I received my Life Coaching and NLP
Master Practitioner Certifications through the inlpcenter.org. They have a great program and focus their
training on transformative techniques. I have two sons, 25 and 20 years old. My
strength and my joy. I have learned so much from them and grown so much by
being their father. I have been married twice. Once for 17 years with the
mother of my sons and the second for two years.
What
inspired you to author your book?
I have been
working a very steady self growth program for the past 8 years spurred on by
the beating I took from my alcoholism. I had to surrender everything I new and
be willing to change everything in my life in order to survive and stay sober. The
program of Alcoholics Anonymous is heavy on character development and forgiving
others and being forgiven. Chapters 4 and 5 of my book are influenced greatly
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There was a
very special moment in June of 2019 that changed my life forever. I was sitting
at my desk in the morning, doing my love list, and I was overcome with a joy
like I had never known before. Tears of joy wet my face and I said out loud,
“All the moments of my life have been forgiven.” Every resentment and regret
that I had ever had was gone. There was no guilt or shame whatsoever. I felt as
if I had been reborn. I vowed in that moment to share this feeling with as many
people as I could while I was still on this Earth. This became the sole focus
of my life, for the rest of my life. I left a good career, sold my home, went
back to school, and so much more in order to make this happen. I had to be
willing to change everything in order to make this happen. I have changed so
much, and in doing so, I have grown so much.
Where
did you get the inspiration for your book’s cover?
I like the
idea of a sunrise and a new beginning. I write about this a lot in my book.
Yesterday doesn’t exist. It doesn’t matter what your life has been up to this
point or how you have showed up in your life. You can be whoever you want to be
and live the life you want to live moving forward. Every day when we wake up we
have the opportunity to live the life of our dreams. Success isn’t about the
destination, it's about the journey. So as soon as we take our first steps
towards our dreams we are in fact living the dream.
Who
has been the most significant influence on you personally and as a writer?
There are so
many great authors and philosophers, in fact to many to name them all. My
greatest role models have been Buddha and Jesus Christ. My favorite authors
right now are James Allen, Napoleon Hill, Echkart Tolle, Michael Singer, and
Ralph Waldo Emerson.
What
were your struggles or obstacles you had to overcome to get this book written?
It seems like
every day in the past 2 years I have been doing something outside of my comfort
zone. Doing something I haven’t done before. Learning something new. For most
of the 2 years I didn’t know what the next step was going to be. I had a solid
vision of my dream and knew that if I kept doing the next indicated right
thing, taking that next logical step, that the next step would be revealed to
me. That the universe would guide me and no matter what I had to do that I would
be able to learn how to do it. The only time I truly struggled is when I
resisted the guidance that the universe was sending me and when I resisted the
lesson it was trying to teach me. All of my suffering and struggle in my life
has been self chosen. It has been a decision and choice that I have made. I
write a lot about this in this book.
Tell
your readers about your book.
Life doesn’t
give us what we want, it gives us what we are. If we want more out of life, we
must first become more. If we want our life to change then we must first be
willing to change ourselves. All the power we will ever need is with us. This
book will help you find your power, develop it, and wield it.
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Who is your target audience, and why?
Every human
being who is unhappy with their life. Every human being that has given up hope
of a better life. Every human being that is looking to take their life to the
next level. Every human being that wants to be happy, joyous, and free. We have
it in our power to become our most magnificent selves and live our most
magnificent lives. We have it in our power to create our most magnificent
world. There is nothing we cannot do. The power is within us.
If
you were going to give one reason for anyone looking at your book to read, why
should they buy it?
They should
buy it because they were put on this Earth to become their most magnificent
self and live their most magnificent life. They are here to realize the power
with in themselves and evolve. This book will help them do that.
What
do you consider your greatest success in life?
My greatest
success in life is getting to a place where I can honestly say that I love
every human being in the world. That love in my heart, and the serenity I feel
when I let go allow my higher power to work miracles in my life and the life of
others, these are my two greatest successes.
What
one unique thing sets you apart from other writers in your genre?
I think we are
all unique. I think we are all trying to communicate the same message, just
with different semantics and from different angles. Science, religion,
spirituality, all trying to discover and communicate the same truth. I accept
everyone’s opinion as being one piece of a great puzzle to which there are 7+ billion
pieces.
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How
do you overcome writer’s block?
I never had
it. I was inspired to write this book and 4 weeks later it was written. It was
very inspired. In fact, the first time I read it I couldn’t believe some of the
truth that came through me.
What
one piece of advice do you have for new authors.
Believe that
you can write that great work that you have always dreamed of writing. There is
a message that you were born to share with the world. Share that message. Allow
it to flow through you. The world needs to read what you have to say.
Tell
your readers anything else you want to share.
Deep down
inside you is a dream and vision for your life. It’s probably one that you have
never told anyone about because you were afraid they would tell you that you
were crazy or tell you that you couldn’t do it. Reconnect with that vision for
you life. Create a burning desire to live that dream. And take the first step
towards it. The universe cannot guide you and show you the way if you are
standing still.
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